..Stop adding up your problems and start counting your blessings. “A post from a friend”
Thank you Paprika!!
..Stop adding up your problems and start counting your blessings. “A post from a friend”
Thank you Paprika!!
“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
― C.S. Lewis
REALLY?!?! Smoking has been banned from most public places and this fool in a suit and overcoat is smoking on the train!!!! He is bending down while sitting smoke a friggin cigarette!! Now I’m going smell like smoke. He couldn’t wait to get off the train? Was work that stressful??? Ooowee!! I’m mad!! I have friends that smoke and they have all kinds of courtesy to step to the side. But this Rockhead, no good making me want to punch his lights out and pull his lips over his head and give him an extra nostril no respect for others is ticking me OFF!!! Now I have a headache and I can only open up my window. Ughhhh!! But on the lighter side, rocking music boy is riding the train tonight. He’s rocking and sanging. I feel like Madea right now, getting extra mad when I think about rockhead! I smell, I get mad. I look up and see him I get mad. Thank you for listening to me vent. Have a nice evening y’all!!
Just before beginning your day ask yourself about how you are going to spend this wonderful day. Would you think about bad experience in your past or worry about how to make your future better or live only for this day? Would you hate yourself because people are not liking you? Would you think that I am lonely because I don’t have friends? Would you underestimate yourself if others said something which you felt to be right? Would you work only for money? Would you blame your parents or your life for whatever you are right now? Would you only think about yourself? Would you think about your problems, illness and disorder everyday? Would you react and get angry with everyone coming on your way due to carrying all those burdens mentioned above? The answer is simple. Forgive, Forget and move on. This is the day which will give you happiness, prosperity and peace. You decide something and go for it. If you believe that you can reach there then all you have to do is die for it. You are greater than you think. Your potential is beyond your imagination. The time will come that you know something about life which others cannot figure it out. ~ Tejas Patel
I just discovered a new commercial for the train ride. Like to hear it, here it goes…. “Are you in a hurry? Did you wake up late and depending on the train? No problem, RT Light Rail can help you out!! Just bring your comb, brush and make-up and you can finish prepping on the train!! We have the biggest window that also can be used as mirror! Just look out the window and finish your hair-do. You look fabulous!! Not so late after all!! Just listen to one of our riders…”I woke up and looked at my clock and realize that I forgot to set the alarm clock now I have 30 mins to shower, dress and be out the door to catch the train on time. I just couldn’t afford to be late for work again. But thank goodness I brought my hair products with me and now I can do my hair on light rail. Thanx RT, now I won’t get docked a day from work!” Ride RT, you can do so much more than just ride!!
You can’t get orange juice from an apple. No matter how much pressure you put on it. The only juice you can get from any fruit is the juice that it has inside. And it’s the same with us…. What comes out of us when we’re under pressure is what is inside of us. And unlike a mindless fruit… we can choose what we fill ourselves up with.
Under pressure some people turn sour, rotten and downright ugly producing a toxic juice blend that no one wants to taste. While other people under pressure produce not just good juice, but great juice in great quantities.
We must fill ourselves with pleasantness, possibility, positivity, perspective and peace…if we want to experience these things under the pressures we know that tomorrow will bring.
Then with confidence we can say “SQUEEZE ME “
Kirk Out
A new year, a new slate of resolutions.
Perhaps the biggest resolution at New Year’s is to get fit — start exercising, start eating right, and all that jazz.
But resolutions never last. As you might already know, I’m not a fan of resolutions.
Instead of creating a list of resolutions this year, create a new habit.
Habits last, and they lead to long-term fitness (and more). They require more patience, but they are worth the wait.
As some of you know, fitness habits are what started me along the path to changing my life. I quit smoking, started running. Then I started eating healthier, became vegetarian (now vegan), quit the junk food addiction, started doing other types of workouts (bodyweight, weights, Crossfit, anything that was fun).
And six years later, I’m nearly 39 years old and in the best shape of my life. I have less bodyfat than any time since high school, more muscle than ever in my life, and I can run and hike and play longer than anytime in the history of Leo. That’s not to brag, but to show you what can be done with some simple fitness habits.
The appealing thing about many fitness programs is that they promise quick results. You see testimonials from people who have gone through the program and lost 30 lbs. and gain a washboard stomach in just 4 weeks!
That’s all complete crap.
First, most people won’t achieve those results. Second, and more importantly, if you do get quick results, you’ll reverse those results very quickly … because you haven’t created new habits. You’ve just done something intense and unsustainable for a short period of time. That’s nearly worthless.
You should be focused on long-term results, and more importantly on a healthy lifestyle. A healthy lifestyle starts with changing your habits and ends with long-term results.
Changing habits takes time. I recommend one habit at a time, and give yourself about a month per habit. That takes patience, but you shouldn’t try to see amazing results in just 30 days. You should enjoy your new lifestyle, which will be an amazing result in itself that you can achieve immediately. In a matter of months and years, your body and health will change too.
Let’s say you change one habit at a time, one per month or so. You’ll have 12 new habits every year. Even if you only formed 6 habits that stuck and that you loved, you’d be amazed at what kind of changes those 6 habits would create in your life and fitness. If you did 6 habits a year for three years, you’d be transformed.
If you don’t have the patience to change one habit at a time, or focus on enjoying your new habits rather than getting quick results, you should stop reading now.
So let’s say you’re just starting out … what habit should you start with?
My favorite habit is daily exercise, but if you’re looking to lose weight probably the most important habits relate to eating.
In truth, which habit you choose first matters very little in the long run. You will be changing many little habits over the course of the next few years, and the order of those habits is unimportant. What matters is that you start.
Here are some habits that I’d start with, if you haven’t created them yet:
§ Exercise for just 5 minutes a day, adding 5 minutes per week. Make it a fun exercise.
§ Drink water instead of sweet drinks.
§ Replace fried foods with vegetables.
§ Eat fruit and nuts for snacks.
§ Eat lean protein, including plant proteins, instead of red meat.
§ Add strength exercises to your routine — pushups, pullups, squats, lunges.
§ If you’ve been doing all of the above for awhile, add some weights — compound lifts like squats, deadlifts, bench presses, dips, chinups, overhead presses and rows.
I’ve found that losing weight is simple: eat lots of veggies and plant or lean protein, reduce calories, do some kind of cardio, lift some weights to preserve muscle.
Gaining muscle is also fairly simple: eat lots of veggies and plant or lean protein, increase calories, do some kind of cardio to preserve heart health, lift heavy weights to grow muscle.
The weights should be compound lifts and heavy, the cardio should be enjoyable. Getting “toned”, btw, is just gaining muscle and losing the fat that covers the muscle, whether you’re a man or woman.
These are my top principles for forming habits. If you’ve read my writings on habits before, this won’t be new to you, but often it’s good to review these principles for things you’ve missed:
1. Make it social. This is an incredibly powerful too. I highly, highly recommend Fitocracy to everyone, as it’s a way to make exercise fun and social (invite code: ZENHABITS). It turns fitness into a game, and you log your exercises, get points, encourage others, complete fitness quests, get props for workouts you’ve done. Other great ways to make your habit change social: report on your daily progress to friends and family through Facebook, Twitter, Google+ or email, find a workout partner, get a coach, join a running group, join online fitness forums, join a class.
2. Do one habit at a time only. People often skip this one because they think they are different than everyone else, but I’ve found this to be extremely effective. You increase your odds of success with just one habit at a time, for many reasons: habits are hard to form because they require lots of focus and energy, having many habits means you’re spreading yourself too thin, and if you can’t commit to one habit at a time, you’re not fully committed.
3. Make it your top priority. People often put off fitness and diet stuff because they’re too busy, too tired, to stressed out by big projects or the holidays, etc. But in my experience, those are great reasons you *should* be exercising. So make your new diet or exercise habit one of your absolute top priorities for the day. If you don’t have time, you need to make time.
4. Enjoy the habit. This is extremely important, and most people ignore it. If the habit is fun, you will stick with it longer. And even better, if you are enjoying it, you immediately win. You don’t need to wait for a bunch of pounds lost or other results — you get instant results because you’re enjoying the change. I find activities I enjoy, I join challenges or races to make exercise fun, I enjoy a conversation with a friend during a run, I eat healthy foods that are delicious (berries — yum!) and focus on savoring those foods. Focus on the enjoyment, and don’t make the habit change a big sacrifice.
Many people set fitness goals for the year. I’ve done it myself, but lately I’ve found that I can get fit without them. For one thing, when you set goals, they are often arbitrary, and so you are spending all your effort working towards a basically meaningless number. And then if you don’t achieve it, you feel like you failed, even if the number was arbitrary to start with.
You can create habits without goals — I define goals as a predefined outcome that you’re striving for, not activities that you just want to do. So is creating a habit a goal? It can be, or you can approach it with the attitude of “it doesn’t matter what the outcome of this habit change is, but I want to enjoy the change as I do it”.
So enjoy the habit change, in the moment, and don’t worry what the outcome of the activity is. The outcome matters very little, if you enjoy the journey.
The journey to fitness can have an infinite number of paths, and setting your path in advance by setting goals is limiting. Allow yourself to change course on a whim, without guilt of not achieving a goal, and you’ll find new paths you’d never have anticipated when you set out.
But the most important step of the journey is the first one. After that, the most important step is the one you’re presently taking. So take that step, and enjoy it.
Happy New Years!! I’m posting my first train blog for 2012 and all I can say is WOW!! I’m on a 4pm train so that means “all” kinds of hood rats are riding the train. You have this dude (with monkey bites all over his neck) listening to his music and rocking like he should be in a room with white padded walls. He keeps repeating the words “with a diamond on his back, I’m a hustler hustler, hustler. Got rims on everythang…” Another dude rapping to a girl standing up against the walls that “bend” on the train. Hood rats talking about shoes that they probably can’t afford (sorry for judging, but I’m just saying). Now I have a chick playing her music on her phone because she feels that everyone wants to listen to her music. But its not mixing to well with “I’m a hustler” song. Oh wait!!! I smell the old so popular “weed de fleur” fragrance mix with cigarette and the “I haven’t had the chance to shower” fragrance” topped with “fried bologna”aroma is the hit of 2012. Oh the joy!!!
Welcome to flight number 2012.
We are prepared for take off into the new year.
Please make sure that your attitude and blessings are secure and locked in an upright position.
All self-destructive devices should be turned off at this time.
Should we lose altitude under pressure during our flight, reach up an pull down a prayer, prayers will be automatically activated by faith.
Once your faith is fully activated you can assist other passengers.
There will be no baggage allowed on this flight. The captain has cleared us for take off.
Destination greatness.
Enjoy your flight.
(post from Debra Coleman via Adena Reed)
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