Great Service is a Choice

from The Simple Truths of Service
by Ken Blanchard and Barbara Glanz
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No one can make you serve customers well.  That’s because great service is a choice.  Years ago, my friend, Harvey Mackay, told me a wonderful story about a cab driver that proved this point.  He was waiting in line for a ride at the airport.  When a cab pulled up, the first thing Harvey noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine.  Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for Harvey.  He handed my friend a laminated card and said:

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“I’m Wally, your driver.  While I’m loading your bags in the trunk, I’d like you to read my mission statement.”

Taken aback, Harvey read the card. It said:

Wally’s Mission Statement:

“To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest, and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment.”

This blew Harvey away.  Especially when he noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!

As he slid behind the wheel, Wally said, “Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.”

My friend said jokingly, “No, I’d prefer a soft drink.”

Wally smiled and said, “No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, water and orange juice.”

Almost stuttering, Harvey said, “I’ll take a Diet Coke.”

Handing him his drink, Wally said, “If you’d like something to read, I have The Wall Street Journal, Time, Sports Illustrated and USA Today.”

As they were pulling away, Wally handed my friend another laminated card.  “These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you’d like to listen to the radio.”

As if that weren’t enough, Wally told Harvey that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for him.  Then he advised Harvey of the best route to his destination for that time of the day.  He also let him know that he’d be happy to chat and tell him about some of the sights, or, if Harvey preferred, to leave him with his own thoughts.

“Tell me, Wally,” my amazed friend asked the driver, “have you always served customers like this?”

Wally smiled into the rear view mirror.  “No, not always.  In fact, it’s only been in the last two years.  My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do.  Then I heard the personal growth guru, Wayne Dyer, on the radio one day.  He had just written a book called You’ll See It When You Believe It.  Dyer said that if you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you’ll rarely disappoint yourself.  He said, ‘Stop complaining!  Differentiate yourself from your competition.  Don’t be a duck. Be an eagle.  Ducks quack and complain.  Eagles soar above the crowd.’

“That hit me right between the eyes,” said Wally.  “Dyer was really talking about me.  I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle.  I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers.  The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy.  So I decided to make some changes.  I put in a few at a time.  When my customers responded well, I did more.”

“I take it this has paid off for you,” Harvey said.

“It sure had,” Wally replied.  “My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year.  This year I’ll probably quadruple it.  You were lucky to get me today.  I don’t sit at cab stands anymore.  My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on my answering machine.  If I can’t pick them up myself, I get a reliable cabbie friend to do it and I take a piece of the action.”

Wally was phenomenal.  He was running a limo service out of a Yellow Cab.  I’ve probably told that story to more than fifty cab drivers over the years, and only two took the idea and ran with it.  Whenever I go to their cities, I give them a call.  The rest of the drivers quacked like ducks and told me all the reasons they couldn’t do any of what I was suggesting.

Johnny the Bagger and Wally the Cab Driver made a different choice.  They decided to stop quacking like ducks and start soaring like eagles. How about you?

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Assist or Resist – Lessons from a Leader (post from Kirk Weisler)

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John Houston Stockton –  is a retired NBA basketball player who played his entire career for the Utah Jazz in the position of point guard.  He led the NBA nearly every season in a statistic known as “Assists” which defined simply means – he was the last person to touch the ball before the player who actually scored points with it.  Or said another way… he helped his team mates score more than any other player in the entire league helped their team mates score.  To this day his record as the NBA’s all time assist leader stands at 15,806.

15,806 times John Stockton enabled his team mates to take the shot, score the points and look like heroes.  For those reading this who ever watched him play… you know how quietly and remarkably he lead his team, and lived his life.  I loved him.  For more about him… click here.

(To watch the record breaking game and be inspired – watch the video at the end of this post.)

Are you into – Resistance or Assistance?

Resistance says, “Take the day off.” Assistance says, “Go help someone have an easier day.”

Resistance is fueled by fear. Assistance is fueled by love.

Resistance doubts, pouts, whines, and sits on the couch. Assistance gives, shares, encourages, and makes deposits.

Today you will resist or you will assist.

Make the decision to win the resistance and assistance battle and challenge your team to do the same. It will make your environment a lot more productive.

Leadership Begins at Home,  – What is one thing you can do to assist a team member today?

Make a difference today.
(Thank you Ron and son for inspiring today’s T4D)

Kirk out

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When You Look In A Mirror….

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Their Light in our Lives (post by Kirk Weisler)

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I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your being.   -Hafiz

Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it.  Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy ~ the experiences that make us the most vulnerable.  Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.   -Brene Brown

There are so many people that seem to act as lights in our lives. They brighten our day, they dispel darkness and bring smiles and bring sunshine. I am so grateful I am grateful for these people, I am inspired by them… and aspire to be like them.

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My commander in the 19th Special Forces Group would often remind us to “See the Light, and Be a Light” so that we might keep the hope alive in ourselves and bring hope into the lives of the people we served.   Good counsel from a person in command.  🙂

Be a light – Have an Enlightening Day

~ Kirk Out

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Wisdom and a Wave (post by Kirk Weisler)

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At Purdue for my annual 5 hour leadership lecture to some amazing young adults and future leaders.  While here I was able to attend a basketball game, meet Purdue Pete, and hang out with my friend and mentor Professor Richard Feinberg who I asked to help me with today’s T4D.

So here it is….

It’s not up to other people to keep you encouraged.  It’s up to you.  Encouragement should come from inside.

Forgiveness is not about being nice and kind; it’s about letting go so you can claim the amazing future that awaits you.

Give people a little room while they are in the process of changing.

When you hold others back, you are really holding yourself back.

Go out into the day and be determined to enjoy it.

And he also recommended this video… Tribute to the lady who waves at passing students.  Very nice….proof that the little things are the big things.

Thank you Richard… and thank you friends

Enjoy your weekend.
Kirk

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This Adorable 3-Year Old Girl Will Give You The Lesson Of A Lifetime

Posted on: March 4, 2014 / (http://www.superstarmagazine.com/)

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Little Emily is not your typical child. She decided to cut her golden brown locks by the age of three and give it to kids with cancer who have lost their hair.

When her parents suggested the idea to her showing her pictures of children with no hair and that her hair could be turned into a wig for a child with cancer, Emily happily agreed.

Her Uncle Matthew who is a hairdresser, cut her but she insisted that her Dolly’s hair must be cut first, so he did. She may be young but she definitely has an old soul.

Share this post if little Emily has inspired you, she definitely has inspired me.

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KIDS REACT TO ROTARY PHONES

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Wise Leader and the Other one (post by Kirk Weisler)

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The proud leader seeks to enhance their reputation.  The wise leader seeks to enhance the culture.

The proud leader seeks to win.

The wise leader seeks to put others in a position so that they can win.

The proud leader __________ .  The wise leader _______________.

Well how would you fill in the blanks?

Kirk Out

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This ’4-eyed Nerd’ Was Horribly Bullied. Wait Til You See What He Grew Up To Do….Whoa!

November 13, 2013 (posted)

This ugly duckling story is real and completely authentic. Meet a young man that was basically born a nerd. From infancy, he was seen as a geek, a nerd or a dork. Just do us a favor and listen to his story of transformation. He ended up something so completely different from a nerd, he could give anyone hope:

I started wearing glasses since the age of four. When I was young, I remember being called “four-eyes.” In retrospect, it sounds like a pretty cool thing to be called, like I have a super hero power or something; at the time though, I think the name calling hurt. I was an introverted kid and I think I identified myself with being a bit of an outcast.

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In junior high school I remember being shoved up against a locker and the kid who did it told me I was “a nerd.” When I asked him why, he stammered for a moment and finally came up with “because you wear glasses.” I thought this was a bit humorous and from that moment on became a self proclaimed nerd/geek. I was very happy with my personality and did not care to change at all. Even though I was picked on a bit, I had great friends and rather enjoyed junior high and high school.

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I did most of the stereotypical nerd things in high school. I was the band president as well as the chess club president.

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I also was in some plays. I carried a yo-yo around with me all the time and would play with it in between classes. During lunch time, I would play ping pong and juggle.

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I have always had a quirky personality. I think I often tried to be weird on purpose at times. I always wore goofy hats and never knew how to smile for the camera.

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Playing trombone in front of the local library. Even though I have always been happy with my personality and never had a desire to change, I have also always been very shy and self-conscious about my looks. By the time I was 23 I had only ever asked out one girl on a date.

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After graduating from high school and starting college I realized how much I wanted to get married and start a family. I began to fear I would never be able to marry the girl of my dreams because she would never be attracted to me. While ice blocking one day, I did a faceplant and broke my glasses. Rather than replacing them, I chose the cheap alternative and just decided to switch things up and stop wearing glasses. After having worn them for 20 years I felt naked without them, but it turns out that I had 20/20 vision and never really needed them in the first place.

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A couple of years after I ditched my glasses, I realized that I would not die if I tried to change my appearance a bit. I wanted to marry a girl I was attracted to and figured that 

girls would probably want the same thing. I have always been totally clueless when it comes to fashions, styles, and clothing, but I decided I would try to change the hairstyle I had done for my entire life. I tried to let it grow out so it could be curly. This is probably one of the first pictures of me having NOT combed my hair.

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I experimented with different lengths of hair. I always prefered it really short because it was easy to manage, but I eventually tried growing it longer just for kicks.

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As an added bonus, growing my hair out meant that I could dress up like Art Garfunkel.

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By the time I had one year left before graduating from my university, I had a bit more confidence but was still very shy. Even though I would go on dates, I felt like the girls were just being nice and didn’t want to hurt me by saying no. I rarely went on second dates and still did not have a girlfriend. I still felt that I didn’t look very attractive. I was a bit conscious about my weight and quite frankly didn’t know how else to change my appearance so I decided to start working out. I replaced my desk chair with an exercise bike and worked out for about 1-3 hours almost every day. I ended up losing about 20 pounds.

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After I graduated, I still had no girlfriend and prospects were not looking too good. After trying for so long just to get a girlfriend it was a bit depressing for me to not see any results. One thing I can say though is that I began to be more confident. I felt like I was doing all that I could. I was trying to look better and was working out. I was just trying to be a nice guy, and be the kind of guy I thought girls were attracted to.

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I went off to Alaska to work and had even less luck there. I would go on a date about once every other month. I was about ready to give up and then…..

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When I was 29 years old, I finally had my first kiss and got my first girlfriend! Getting a girlfriend really helped me to be less shy and more confident. I finally knew that there was someone out there who liked me enough to be my girlfriend. The girl I dated is wonderful and appreciated my quirky personality; ultimately though, I realized I was not in a lifelong relationship. We dated for less than half a year, but in that time I gained a lot of confidence and learned a lot about myself. In the subsequent years I had more luck with dating and was more confident with myself.

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About a year later I got a new coworker. I was still quite shy and it took me more than a month to finally get the courage to talk to her. When I finally did, I felt like we instantly clicked (apparently she was kind of weirded out by me… but no matter. I am a weird guy). We started dating a couple of months later.

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We dated for a year and I was happy as could be! I knew I wanted to marry her. She put up with and even appreciated my nerdness. She even let me put Linux on her computer (though she never uses it). I felt like I finally found someone who appreciated me for who I am.

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We kept dating and I proposed to her about a year and a half after we first met.

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I am 31 years old and am on my honeymoon now. I have been married for a week. Ten years ago I never would have thought I would end up marrying someone as wonderful and as beautiful as my wife. I am still very much a nerd/geek but she loves me for that. I am so happy that I met my wonderful wife. If I were to give advice to my younger self, it would be this: “Things may not happen when or where you want them to. Just try your best; that is all you can do.” That is pretty awesome that I ended on a rhyme, so I will just stop typing now.

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This man proved many things. For one, never let your bullies define you. Never be ashamed of who you are. And with enough work and perseverance, you can accomplish anything you want. Most of all, never ever give up.

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7 Simple Ways to Relieve Stress

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Looking for ways to reduce stress? These relaxation techniques will have you finding relief in no time.

We all get stressed out sometimes, but if it feels like stress seems to rule your days, it’s time to do something about it.

Why is reducing stress so important? Because stress isn’t just problematic in the moment — it’s a real health risk. The more stress, the more likely you will suffer physical ailments, from migraines to belly fat. Or even a heart attack. But before you get even more anxious about the long-term effects of chronic stress, try these several tried and true stress-reduction and relaxation techniques.

1. Breathe
Yes, breathing is second nature, but during stressful times, that’s often not the case. Under a cloud of worry, many people hold their breath or have shallow breath, or tense up so much that it’s actually difficult to inhale adequate oxygen. So the first way to turn your stress level down a few notches is to focus on your breathing. Sitting up, close your eyes and inhale and exhale, nice and easy, then repeat 10 times. Or, lie down, place a pillow under your knees, and put your hand on your belly to feel your breath rise and fall. You can say the words “rising” and “falling” in your head as you take in and release your breath.

2. Eat Chocolate
Having a bad day? A piece of dark chocolate might be just the nibble you need to brighten your outlook and reduce stress. In fact, a daily dose of dark chocolate (70 percent cacao or higher) is a proven antidote to stress (Plus, it can lower your risk of stroke, diabetes and heart disease.). Cocoa beans are rich in flavonoids, an antioxidant, which counteract the anxiety-producing hormone, cortisol. If possible, opt for brands that offer the purest form, preferably organic and made from “single estate” or “single origin” beans. (Sorry, milk chocolate doesn’t count.)

3. Reach for Soothing Scents
To calm those nerves in an instant, try inhaling aromas from bergamot, lavender or peppermint oils. Have a tension headache? Put one drop of lavender oil on your fingertips and massage your temples. To get the scent to permeate the room, add a few drops of essential oil to an unscented candle and light it. Not only will your space smell heavenly, this relaxation technique will calm your spirit in no time.

4. Take a Bath
Since ancient times, hydrotherapy has been practiced for its healing and restorative powers. To make your tub-time extra therapeutic, sprinkle in a handful of bath salts, turn down the lights, turn on some relaxing music and light an aromatherapy candle.

5. Get Moving
Even if it’s the last thing you feel like doing at the moment, one of the quickest, most effective ways to reduce stress is to exercise. You’ve heard of a runner’s high? The “high” comes from the endorphins that our brains produce when we get our heart pumping. Low impact exercises — walking, swimming, biking, weight lifting, yoga or Pilates — are just as effective when it comes to boosting your mood, too.

6. Picture Peacefulness
When you feel tension throughout your body, calm those nerves by closing your eyes and picturing the most peaceful place you can imagine. Whether it’s curling up by the fire, lying on the beach or staring at a moonlit lake with only the sounds of lapping waves and crickets, just the thought can bring you some measure of peace.

7. Apply Pressure
Stress can cause some serious aches and pains. To manage these physical ailments, try acupressure — a Chinese therapy in which pressure is applied to the meridians, or channels, in your body. It is believed these channels connect your organs, and, when one is blocked, can result in pain or illness. To alleviate the discomfort of a headache, apply your index and middle finger to your wrist, at the base of your palm in line with your pinky finger and hold firmly for 30 seconds. Repeat on the other wrist. Similarly, you can try the point between your big toe and the second toe. Try it — it works!

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