Get your Greeter a Coffee (post by Kirk Weisler)

You just have to appreciate this one.  People sometimes forget that old people had a career before they retired……

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Charley, a new retiree-greeter at Wal-Mart, just couldn’t seem to get to work on time. Every day he was 5, 10, 15 minutes late. But he was a good worker, really tidy, clean-shaven, sharp-minded and a real credit to the company and obviously demonstrating their “Older Person Friendly” policies.

One day the boss called him into the office for a talk.

“Charley, I have to tell you, I like your work ethic, you do a bang-up job when you finally get here; but your being late so often is quite bothersome.”

“Yes, I know boss, and I am working on it.”

“Well good, you are a team player. That’s what I like to hear.”

“Yes sir, I understand your concern and I’ll try harder.”

Seeming puzzled, the manager went on to comment, “It’s odd though your coming in late. I know you’re retired from the Armed Forces. What did they say to you there if you showed up in the morning so late and so often?”

The old man looked down at the floor, then smiled.  He chuckled quietly, then said with a grin, “They usually saluted and said, ‘Good morning, Admiral, can I get your coffee, sir?’”

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Loved the story – it may or may not be true (my experience with retired service men and women is that they are always on time).  But my point in sharing the story is that it may serve as a reminder to us all that we are generally surrounded by more real world wisdom than we may ever find with a search engine.  Google seems easier to ask than the elderly, and I love Google, it is wonderful in so many ways.  Yet, there is also something wonderful about this story to me.  I feel it inviting me to take a closer and more reverent and respectful look at those who have been traveling longer on life’s road than I… and maybe inviting me to get them a coffee as well.

Quote from my Rebecca “When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.”

Kirk Out

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Do you want to be scared (post by Kirk Weisler)

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Anything I’ve ever done that ultimately was worthwhile… initially scared me to death. –Betty Bender

I don’t know about “scared to death” but the truth for me is… that I was scared before my first real ‘industry related speech’ and I was scared about leaving the security of a corporate entity and trying to provide for my then young family on my own.  I was scared about everything I didn’t know about publishing a book …and I was scared about the cost of putting together my first book just to get it ready for the printer.  Then… the printing costs were scary . I mean what if no one really wanted to buy a book about Poop and Initiative?

I can make a list of the most worthwhile things in my life… and trace almost all of them back to a moment of uncertainty or fear.  While,  ’scared to death’ sounds a bit dramatic…. it is reflective of a reality.  Fear of the new and unknown is natural… overcoming it is needful.  I’ve been taught that “faith is the moving cause of all action” and that “fear robs faith”.  So if we let fear paralyze us, and stop us from going it will also stop us from growing.  We’ll just stay stuck in the muck scared to make a move and take a risk.

But if we will face our fears… with faith, courage, determination and some degree of preparation and planning…  AND THEN we act… we move, we begin to work towards our goal…we grow more and become more…and are scared less and less.  As our faith, confidence and courage grow, there is less and less room for our fears and doubts.

Soon, almost before we know it …our fears have fled and we’ve done that scary thing. We got married, quit the job or applied for a new one, write the book, called someone to apologize and begin again… we’ve chosen to Act Courageously and so we’ve become more courageous.  Or as my Rebecca says to our kids…..

Act the way you want to be and soon you’ll become the way you act. ~ Rebecca Weisler

Reminds me of that line from the movie “WE Bought a Zoo”  – “Sometimes all you need is 20 seconds of insane courage”

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Paper Boats Won’t Hold Much Gold (post from Kirk Weisler)

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“You keep sending out these little paper boats, and hope that someday one will come back laden with gold.”  ~Glen Hansard, principal songwriter and vocalist/guitarist for Irish group “The Frames,” born April 21, 1970.

Ouch!   Sometimes, guilty as charged.  Why is it we are always looking for the easy way out?   Why do we hope we can get rich by buying a lottery ticket?   Why do we think that we can have a great relationship without working on it every day?  Why do we think we can get that job promotion when we are disengaged in our current position?  Why do we think that we can get more out of life than we put into it?

If you want your ship to come in, you’ll have to invest in something bigger, stronger and otherwise more reliable than a paper boat.  Invest in yourself — your education, your community and your attitudes. ~ Annette Lavigne

Thank you to Annette Lavigne who shared this with me nearly 2 years ago.  I hope it floats your boat.

Kirk Out

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Be Careful With Your Words

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Forgiveness

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Appearance & Personality

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You can look like royalty but be rotten to the core!!!!

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If All the Raindrops…

Happy Friday!!  And here’s a song to get stuck in you head all day!!  Muwahhhhhh!!


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Kids React to Valentine’s Day

HAPPY VALENTINES TO YOU!!

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You Are Allowing Them to Control You

control youPositive Inspirational Quotes ( PIQ)

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Learning from Lincoln (post by Kirk Weisler)

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Then and Now: History for Today February 12 , 1809 –
Abraham Lincoln was born in Hodgenville, Kentucky. Lincoln, one of America’s most admired Presidents, grew up a member of a poor family in Kentucky and Indiana. He attended school for only one year, but thereafter read on his own in a continual effort to improve his mind. As an adult, he lived in Illinois and held a variety of jobs, including stints as a postmaster, surveyor and shopkeeper, before entering politics. At 6′4″, he was the nation’s tallest President. As a young man, he impressed others with his sheer physical strength – he was a legendary wrestler in Illinois – and entertained friends and strangers alike with his dry, folksy with, which was still in evidence years later.

I so enjoyed the recent motion picture about Abraham Lincoln (no not the Vampire Slayer – the other one).  In fact I more than enjoyed it.  I was delighted with it.   There are many wonderful and wise quotes from him, hundreds in fact.  Today I will just share a few….and perhaps together we can all learn from Lincoln.

I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not  bound to succeed, but I am bound to live by the light that I have. I must stand  with anybody that stands right, and stand with him while he is right, and part  with him when he goes wrong.  ~ Lincoln

“If I were to try to read, much less answer, all the attacks made on me, this shop might as well be closed for any other business. I do the very best I know how – the very best I can; and I mean to keep doing so until the end. If the end brings me out all right, what’s said against me won’t amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong, ten angels swearing I was right would make no difference.” The Inner Life of Abraham Lincoln: Six Months at the White House by Francis B. Carpenter (Lincoln, Nebraska, University of Nebraska Press, 1995), pp. 258-259.

“Those who deny freedom to others, deserve it not for themselves; and, under a just God, can not long retain it.” The Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln edited by Roy P. Basler, Volume III, “Letter To Henry L. Pierce and Others” (April 6, 1859), p. 376.

“As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master. This expresses my idea of democracy. Whatever differs from this, to the extent of the difference, is no democracy.” The Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln edited by Roy P. Basler, Volume II, (August 1, 1858?), p. 532.

“Let us have faith that right makes might, and in that faith, let us, to the end, dare to do our duty as we understand it.” Lincoln’s Cooper Institute Address, February 27, 1860.

“I leave you, hoping that the lamp of liberty will burn in your bosoms until there shall no longer be a doubt that all men are created free and equal.” The Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln edited by Roy P. Basler, Volume II, “Speech at Chicago, Illinois” (July 10, 1858), p. 502.

“Common looking people are the best in the world: that is the reason the Lord makes so many of them.” Lincoln and the Civil War In the Diaries and Letters of John Hay selected by Tyler Dennett (New York, Da Capo Press, 1988), p. 143.

“I have been driven many times upon my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go. My own wisdom and that of all about me seemed insufficient for that day.” Lincoln Observed: The Civil War Dispatches of Noah Brooks edited by Michael Burlingame (Baltimore, Johns Hopkins University Press, 1998), p. 210.

“Labor is prior to, and independent of, capital. Capital is only the fruit of labor, and could never have existed if labor had not first existed. Labor is the superior of capital, and deserves much the higher consideration.” Lincoln’s First Annual Message to Congress, December 3, 1861.

“Beavers build houses; but they build them in nowise differently, or better now, than they did, five thousand years ago. Ants, and honey-bees, provide food for winter; but just in the same way they did, when Solomon referred the sluggard to them as patterns of prudence. Man is not the only animal who labors; but he is the only one who improves his workmanship.” The Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln edited by Roy P. Basler, Volume II, “First Lecture on Discoveries and Inventions” (April 6, 1858), p. 437.

Today I will improve my workmanship.

Kirk out

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