Trust and Home Shaking Like Harlem (post by Kirk Weisler)

stephen r covey

Recovering from the “Hit and Run” – I remember when Stephen Covey was asked how to rebuild trust after it was broken.(organizationally or individually)  His answer was profoundly simple.  After emphasizing that do so is never an easy task, and one that generally takes a lot of time, he said that the best way that he knew to go about it was to “Make a promise and then keep it. Then do it again, and again, and again.”  He emphasized that the size of the promises made as not important…but not breaking them was essential.

Speaking of Trust – Most are probably aware of the “Harlem Shake” video trends.  I was aware of it..but didn’t know it would hit so close to home.

A couple of weeks ago Rebecca and I were away for a weekend leaving the kids in charge of themselves.  They love it when we go away and assure us that “they have it handled”.   We always come home to a very clean house, bathed and happy children – with the little ones saying how much fun they had with their big brothers and sister…BUT we’re never really sure what goes on while we are gone.  This time however we caught it all on video…check it out.

Shake it today… and BUILD TRUST

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Simple or Insecure (post by Kirk Weisler)

Thank you Jim Tingen for sharing this with me… from “The Power of Simplicity”, by Jack Trout.

“When Shakespeare wrote Hamlet, he had 20,000 words with which to work.  When Lincoln scribbled the Gettysburg Address on the back of an envelope there were about
114,000 words at his disposal.  Today there are more than 600,000 words in Webster’s Dictionary.  Tom Clancy appears to have used all of them in his last thousand-page novel.

“Insecure managers create complexity.  Frightened, nervous managers use thick, convoluted planning books and busy slides filled with everything they’ve known since childhood.  Real leaders don’t need clutter.  People must have the self-confidence to be clear, precise, to be sure that every person in their organization – highest to lowest – understands what the business is trying to achieve.  But it’s not easy.  You can’t believe how hard it is for people to be simple, how much they fear being simple.  They worry that if they’re simple, people will think they’re simple-minded.  In reality, of course, it’s just the reverse.  Clear, tough-minded people are the most simple.”

simplicity

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Hear What Isn’t Being Said (post by Kirk Weisler)

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“The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said.”  ~Peter Drucker

This couldn’t be more true…. or more difficult.  It really does take a deliberate effort to cultivate the habit of seeking understanding of what is being said.  It’s so easy to want to “get it” quickly so we can move on.  This usually results in our thinking we’ve “got it” when we really we don’t.  Then we end up responding to the “wrong thing” in what we think is the “right way”…. but we’re just plain wrong and all because we didn’t “really” hear what was being said.  We only heard the words but missed the intended meaning.

calvin and hobbes

To accomplish this we must listen with our brain, our ears, our eyes and our heart.

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Seek first to understand, then to be understood.  Understand?

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Don’t Let Yourself Become So Angry

Dont be so angry

Positive Inspirational Quotes ( PIQ)
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Visiting Others Versions of Reality (post by Kirk Weisler)

two realities

“Only in an open space where we’re not all caught up in our own version of reality can we see and hear and feel who others really are, which allows us to be with them and communicate with them properly.” –Pema Chodron

Kirk Out

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Wade with Enthusiasm (post by Kirk Weisler)

sharks

When we accept tough jobs as a challenge to our ability and wade into them with joy and enthusiasm, miracles can happen. — Arland Gilbert

And you can lose your life or a limb….so balance that boldness and temper that enthusiasm with just a bit of wisdom.

And if it’s Sharks…go wade somewhere else.  :)

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Dogs at the Diner

I know it’s Monday but hopefully this video made your smile, I know it did for me!!

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StReSs LeSs

STress lessPost from Positive Inspirational Quotes ( PIQ)

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Don’t Mix Bad Words

bad words

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A Glass of Water

glass of h20

A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?”

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”

It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!

(Thanx Asha Littlejohn for posting and now I am passing it on)

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