A Compact Guide to Creating the Fitness Habit by Zen Habits

Post written by Leo Babauta.

A new year, a new slate of resolutions.

Perhaps the biggest resolution at New Year’s is to get fit — start exercising, start eating right, and all that jazz.

But resolutions never last. As you might already know, I’m not a fan of resolutions.

Instead of creating a list of resolutions this year, create a new habit.

Habits last, and they lead to long-term fitness (and more). They require more patience, but they are worth the wait.

As some of you know, fitness habits are what started me along the path to changing my life. I quit smoking, started running. Then I started eating healthier, became vegetarian (now vegan), quit the junk food addiction, started doing other types of workouts (bodyweight, weights, Crossfit, anything that was fun).

And six years later, I’m nearly 39 years old and in the best shape of my life. I have less bodyfat than any time since high school, more muscle than ever in my life, and I can run and hike and play longer than anytime in the history of Leo. That’s not to brag, but to show you what can be done with some simple fitness habits.

Reshaping Through Habits

The appealing thing about many fitness programs is that they promise quick results. You see testimonials from people who have gone through the program and lost 30 lbs. and gain a washboard stomach in just 4 weeks!

That’s all complete crap.

First, most people won’t achieve those results. Second, and more importantly, if you do get quick results, you’ll reverse those results very quickly … because you haven’t created new habits. You’ve just done something intense and unsustainable for a short period of time. That’s nearly worthless.

You should be focused on long-term results, and more importantly on a healthy lifestyle. A healthy lifestyle starts with changing your habits and ends with long-term results.

Changing habits takes time. I recommend one habit at a time, and give yourself about a month per habit. That takes patience, but you shouldn’t try to see amazing results in just 30 days. You should enjoy your new lifestyle, which will be an amazing result in itself that you can achieve immediately. In a matter of months and years, your body and health will change too.

Let’s say you change one habit at a time, one per month or so. You’ll have 12 new habits every year. Even if you only formed 6 habits that stuck and that you loved, you’d be amazed at what kind of changes those 6 habits would create in your life and fitness. If you did 6 habits a year for three years, you’d be transformed.

If you don’t have the patience to change one habit at a time, or focus on enjoying your new habits rather than getting quick results, you should stop reading now.

Which Habits to Choose

So let’s say you’re just starting out … what habit should you start with?

My favorite habit is daily exercise, but if you’re looking to lose weight probably the most important habits relate to eating.

In truth, which habit you choose first matters very little in the long run. You will be changing many little habits over the course of the next few years, and the order of those habits is unimportant. What matters is that you start.

Here are some habits that I’d start with, if you haven’t created them yet:

§ Exercise for just 5 minutes a day, adding 5 minutes per week. Make it a fun exercise.

§ Drink water instead of sweet drinks.

§ Replace fried foods with vegetables.

§ Eat fruit and nuts for snacks.

§ Eat lean protein, including plant proteins, instead of red meat.

§ Add strength exercises to your routine — pushups, pullups, squats, lunges.

§ If you’ve been doing all of the above for awhile, add some weights — compound lifts like squats, deadlifts, bench presses, dips, chinups, overhead presses and rows.

I’ve found that losing weight is simple: eat lots of veggies and plant or lean protein, reduce calories, do some kind of cardio, lift some weights to preserve muscle.

Gaining muscle is also fairly simple: eat lots of veggies and plant or lean protein, increase calories, do some kind of cardio to preserve heart health, lift heavy weights to grow muscle.

The weights should be compound lifts and heavy, the cardio should be enjoyable. Getting “toned”, btw, is just gaining muscle and losing the fat that covers the muscle, whether you’re a man or woman.

Forming the Habit

These are my top principles for forming habits. If you’ve read my writings on habits before, this won’t be new to you, but often it’s good to review these principles for things you’ve missed:

1.       Make it social. This is an incredibly powerful too. I highly, highly recommend Fitocracy to everyone, as it’s a way to make exercise fun and social (invite code: ZENHABITS). It turns fitness into a game, and you log your exercises, get points, encourage others, complete fitness quests, get props for workouts you’ve done. Other great ways to make your habit change social: report on your daily progress to friends and family through Facebook, Twitter, Google+ or email, find a workout partner, get a coach, join a running group, join online fitness forums, join a class.

2.      Do one habit at a time only. People often skip this one because they think they are different than everyone else, but I’ve found this to be extremely effective. You increase your odds of success with just one habit at a time, for many reasons: habits are hard to form because they require lots of focus and energy, having many habits means you’re spreading yourself too thin, and if you can’t commit to one habit at a time, you’re not fully committed.

3.      Make it your top priority. People often put off fitness and diet stuff because they’re too busy, too tired, to stressed out by big projects or the holidays, etc. But in my experience, those are great reasons you *should* be exercising. So make your new diet or exercise habit one of your absolute top priorities for the day. If you don’t have time, you need to make time.

4.      Enjoy the habit. This is extremely important, and most people ignore it. If the habit is fun, you will stick with it longer. And even better, if you are enjoying it, you immediately win. You don’t need to wait for a bunch of pounds lost or other results — you get instant results because you’re enjoying the change. I find activities I enjoy, I join challenges or races to make exercise fun, I enjoy a conversation with a friend during a run, I eat healthy foods that are delicious (berries — yum!) and focus on savoring those foods. Focus on the enjoyment, and don’t make the habit change a big sacrifice.

Final Recommendations

Many people set fitness goals for the year. I’ve done it myself, but lately I’ve found that I can get fit without them. For one thing, when you set goals, they are often arbitrary, and so you are spending all your effort working towards a basically meaningless number. And then if you don’t achieve it, you feel like you failed, even if the number was arbitrary to start with.

You can create habits without goals — I define goals as a predefined outcome that you’re striving for, not activities that you just want to do. So is creating a habit a goal? It can be, or you can approach it with the attitude of “it doesn’t matter what the outcome of this habit change is, but I want to enjoy the change as I do it”.

So enjoy the habit change, in the moment, and don’t worry what the outcome of the activity is. The outcome matters very little, if you enjoy the journey.

The journey to fitness can have an infinite number of paths, and setting your path in advance by setting goals is limiting. Allow yourself to change course on a whim, without guilt of not achieving a goal, and you’ll find new paths you’d never have anticipated when you set out.

But the most important step of the journey is the first one. After that, the most important step is the one you’re presently taking. So take that step, and enjoy it.

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Train Blog 2012

Happy New Years!! I’m posting my first train blog for 2012 and all I can say is WOW!! I’m on a 4pm train so that means “all” kinds of hood rats are riding the train. You have this dude (with monkey bites all over his neck) listening to his music and rocking like he should be in a room with white padded walls. He keeps repeating the words “with a diamond on his back, I’m a hustler hustler, hustler. Got rims on everythang…” Another dude rapping to a girl standing up against the walls that “bend” on the train. Hood rats talking about shoes that they probably can’t afford (sorry for judging, but I’m just saying). Now I have a chick playing her music on her phone because she feels that everyone wants to listen to her music. But its not mixing to well with “I’m a hustler” song. Oh wait!!! I smell the old so popular “weed de fleur” fragrance mix with cigarette and the “I haven’t had the chance to shower” fragrance” topped with “fried bologna”aroma is the hit of 2012. Oh the joy!!!

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Welcome to Flight #2012

Welcome to flight number 2012.

We are prepared for take off into the new year.

Please make sure that your attitude and blessings are secure and locked in an upright position.

All self-destructive devices should be turned off at this time.

Should we lose altitude under pressure during our flight, reach up an pull down a prayer, prayers will be automatically activated by faith.

Once your faith is fully activated you can assist other passengers.

There will be no baggage allowed on this flight. The captain has cleared us for take off.

Destination greatness.

Enjoy your flight.

(post from Debra Coleman via Adena Reed)

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Finding the Snooze Button (post by Kirk Weisler)

* 23 ADULT TRUTHS*

1 Sometimes I’ll look down at my watch 3 consecutive times and still not know what time it is. (I can relate to this)

2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you’re wrong. (hey, did my wife send this one in?)

3. I totally take back all those times I didn’t want to nap when I was younger. (ditto)

4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.

5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet.

6. Was learning cursive really necessary? (I use it when I sign checks…which is almost never)

7. Map Quest really needs to start their directions on #5. I’m pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.

8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died. ( I so agree)

9. I can’t remember the last time I wasn’t at least kind-of tired.

10. Bad decisions make good stories.  ( I really really like this one)

11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren’t going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.   (Hopefully this is not the moment you first show up to work!)

12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray? I don’t want to have to restart my collection … again.

13 . I’m always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my ten-page technical report that I swear I did not make any changes to.

16. I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Light than Kay.

17. I wish Google Maps had an “Avoid Ghetto” routing option.

18. I have a hard time deciphering the fine line between boredom and hunger. (me too)

19. How many times is it appropriate to say “What?” before you just nod and smile because you still didn’t hear or understand a word they said?

20. I love the sense of camaraderie when an entire line of cars team up to prevent a jerk from cutting in at the front. Stay strong brothers and sisters!

21.  Shirts get dirty. Underwear gets dirty. Pants? Pants never get dirty, and you can wear them forever.

22. Even under ideal conditions people have trouble locating their car keys in a pocket, finding their cell phone, and Pinning the tail on the Donkey – but I’d bet everyone can find and push the snooze button from 3 feet away, in about 1.7 seconds, eyes closed, first time, every time.  BRILLIANT)

23. The first testicular guard, the “Cup,” was used in Hockey in 1874 and the first helmet was used in 1974. That means it only look 100 years for men to realize that their brain is also important. ( does this mean this was written by a woman? )

Ladies …. Quit Laughing

Make it a great day… no snoozing..find your way!!

Kirk

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Kids are Funny!! (video from Jimmy Kimmel)

Have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Years.

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Wow!! This little girl gave me goosebumps!

If you only look at one video this year, let it be this one. ENJOY!!

We’ll probably see this child on America’s Got Talent one of these days!  Hard to believe she’s 5!  Now, THIS is the way to sing the National Anthem.  Notice the body language of this 5 year old…be prepared to have your socks knocked off.

Thanx Carol for sharing.

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Dear Santa Letter….

Author Unknown

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Perfect??

Jacob cheated, Peter had a temper, David had an affair, Noah got drunk, Jonah ran from God, Moses committed murder, Gideon was insecure, Miriam gossiped, Martha worried, Thomas doubted, Sara was impatient, Elijah was moody, Zacchaeus was short, Abraham was old & Lazarus was dead. God doesn’t call the qualified, He qualifies the CALLED! God is greater than our imperfections. (Post from Sherrill Littlejohn Statewright)

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Thursdays Wisdom

I know some days you feel like you can’t cope and you feel like everything and everyone is against you. But that isn’t the case. You are a strong person and you know it. You have been through so much in your life and it’s been hard for you, but that’s why you know you can get through those hard times, because you have done it before. No one is against you, a lot of them just want to be there for you, so let them in. And to the people who are against you, then ignore them and prove them all wrong. Stop comparing yourself to others, you are a beautiful, even if other people can’t see it. So what, everyone has flaws, stop focusing on them and focus on the beautiful things about you. Oh and one last thing, live life for now, enjoy it and be happy. Because one day you are going to look back on these days and I want you to be able to smile. So go and enjoy every minute of it. Stay positive.-Wisdom Quotes

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Disagreeable People…Don’t Be One

Disagreeable people can be among the greatest joy-suckers in our work and personal lives.  While I do have the occasional temptation to just dismiss them as entirely useless and pathetic….  I have also to come to pity them to some degree because of their utter lack of awareness as to why people generally avoid them.

By Kirk Weisler

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