Not Until We Own It First (post by Kirk Weisler)

My wife shared this with me over the weekend, and I have been considering it ever since.

She loved it because she sad it reminded her that she didn’t need to always be positive or happy and that nothing is wrong with having a bad or sad day.  Pretending it away is not only ineffective but intellectually and spiritually dishonest and that means it’s most likely damaging as well.

On the other hand if we do as Carolina Zacaria suggests and acknowledge, embrace and “OWN” our down/bad days, moments, experiences etc. and spend some time with them then precisely because we have chosen to own it, we can now, with authority and confidence, choose to disown it and let it go.

I love it and believe that  it invites us all to consider how this principle might be more fully embraced and lived in our own lives.

You can’t sell it or give it away, if it’s not truly yours in the first place.  And it’s not truly yours in the first place until you own it.

Let’s Own It!

Kirk Out…

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Failure (post by Kirk Weisler)

“Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” ~ Dennis Waitley

Unless you let them…

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Tiny talented dancers owe their skills to a devoted kindergarten teacher

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Flamenco With A Passion

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I Guess I’m Still A Teenager

This is Me All the Time!!  LOL LOL LOL

teenager

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You Just Never Know

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Invincible

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I Love You Shirt

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Living Life To The Fullest

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Be Your Best Self on Hump Day (post by Kirk Weisler)

 be yourself

Have you ever heard, “Don’t just be yourself, be your best self.”  I have, and while I haven’t always appreciated the phrase… I do now.  I want to be my best and I think most healthy people do.  But being “Our Best selves” isn’t going to happen by accident… it’s going to take some intention and some resolve.

First start with why do we want to be our best.  And what it means to you to be your best.

For me being my best – isn’t about people saying “Oh, he’s the best.” – It is about being able to be, serve and give my best to my family, my friends, my faith, and others. (Others are the friends I haven’t met yet…sometimes known as strangers).

One resolution I have made, and try always to keep, is this: “To rise above the little things.”   — John Burroughs

Thank you John Burroughs.  I resolve to re-resolve to rise above the little things.  When I am caught up in and distracted by “little things” I am most often not remembering the bigger picture.  And what is the bigger picture?  The bigger picture for me is to be available, to be prepared, and to be responsive to the needs of the people around me.  To be my best!

jake

Be prepared to be “the one” person for another person. Make this day – one of your BEST DAYS

And to help you on your way… this classic Geico Hump Day Commercial

WHY Are you DETERMINED to be yourself?

Kirk

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