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Thank You Sgt. Brian Meyer (Post by Frank Somerville KTVU)

gunnery sgt brian meyer

Who does something like this?
Look closely at the picture on the left.
That’s Marine Gunnery Sgt. Brian Meyer.

A bomb in Afghanistan had just blown off his leg, his hand, and three fingers on his other hand.
And yet there he is smiling.
And he was doing it on purpose.

GySgt. Meyer ordered another Marine to take this picture.
He forced a smile despite the pain, because he was worried about the impact his injuries would have on his squad. He hoped the picture would make it easier for them to deal with what happened.

Can you imagine?
He was just seriously injured and yet he was thinking about his fellow Marines and how THEY were feeling.

I find that kind of spirit beyond remarkable.
And it’s that spirit that is helping GySgt. Meyer through his recovery process. And helping him become independent despite his injuries.

The picture on the right is him now.
He says: “I focus on what I have left, not what I lost.”
What a great attitude.

GySgt. Meyer also works for the Injured Marines Semper Fi Fund, counseling fellow combat veterans.
And he uses the picture of him injured to show them what’s possible.

He says:
“It’s the exact opposite of what somebody expects you to do.
So when I show it to people and they are inspired by it, instead of being shocked, I know they get it.”

I hate war.
I hate seeing how many young men and woman have lost their lives.
And I hate seeing how many young men and women have suffered life changing injuries.

But at the same time, I find stories about veterans like GySgt. Meyer incredibly powerful.
They are a reminder that there is always hope, no matter how bad the situation is.
They are a reminder that all of us are capable of so much more than we think we are.
And they are a reminder to NEVER give up.

Thank you GySgt. Meyer.
To you and all other veterans: Stay strong!

Story and pictures courtesy AP

 

 

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What Friends & Strangers DO… Thankful for 5 (from Kirk Weisler – Motivational Speaker) One of my favorites!!

We just recently celebrated our daughters Ashlyn’s 5th birthday.  She didn’t want a cake… she wanted Dunkin Donut holes?!  So there you go.   As we rush towards this Thanks giving weekend… I find myself reflecting on and thankful for what has been a most challenging and wonderful year.  I am sure most of us have had times in our lives that didn’t go like we hoped, we planned or even as we prayed they would.  Instead they somehow were worse than we wanted …and better than we expected at the same time.

Our bitter sweet year included our Ashlyn spending an unwelcomed and unwanted month in ICU fighting for her life… and us praying for it.  But we did not pray alone.  Literally thousands of friends, and strangers, prayed with us and for us.  And our little Ashlyn miraculously pulled through.   Our family felt the undeniable lift of this outpouring of love, faith and friendship.  The bitter was lost in the sweet….and we promised ourselves we would never forget what we had received.  And each day as we look at our Ashlyn we continue to see a miracle.  Nearly every day since then has been like the day we came home from the hospital.  As a result of this unwanted experience our family lives in a better place and we have become a better family.

Every family activity, every picture we take..it’s like we all know how blessed we are to have her in it…and how heart breaking it would be if she was not.   We find ourselves praying much more fervently and feeling much more empathy for the many around us have lost family members and those close to them. This awareness and thoughtfulness of others reinforces and magnifies our gratefulness.

It is said that ” It is wise to be grateful… for those that are grateful are humble and those that are  humble are grateful.

Something else I am very grateful for.   A few of my close friends (Motivational Speaker Types), knowing that our family did not have medical insurance, and that a month in ICU can be pricey began planning a 2nd miracle for our family so that our family wouldn’t be selling our home to pay off our medical bills.

I have put off sharing this here for nearly 3 months now because I felt a bit awkward about it …for obvious reasons.  But I have, with encouragement, come to the conclusion that to not share this with you would not honor my friends who organized and donated their time to create it.

I hope that none of you are offended by it, or feel obligated to participate in any way.

It’s a website called http://www.miraclesforashlyn.com/   Each of them recorded a 10-15 minute video sharing their personal strategies & thoughts on what motivators do to stay motivated…when times are hard and stress is high.  There is also a downloadable workbook. They wanted to create something of real value so that people who chose to make a donation would receive so much more than a good feeling.

I suspect most of you know Ashlyn’s story…but for the few of you who do not and who might like to know.  Most of the blog entries are posted at http://humanbecomings.wordpress.com/

Thank you my friends…and have most glorious and grateful Thanksgiving.

Kirk & Family

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Don’t Get Angry, Make a Fist (by FYI Living )

Fist pump your problems away

While you may think that clenching your fists and gritting your teeth is a sign that you are about to lose control, in fact, those classic muscle tensing moves may actually be helping you keep your cool. Really. According to new research, our angry fists of frustration may actually help us find our inner Zen.

The study gets more fascinating. What if we told you that clenching your fists when hearing news of a major national disaster might make you more charitable? That’s right, the participants that clenched their fists in anger when hearing about a tragedy, in turn gave more money to the cause.

How is it possible that physically acting “angry” makes us, well, better people? The researchers suspect that when we are faced with a major problem we may naturally clench our fists. This physical manifestation of our inner emotions may ground us and allow us to pull from our inner strength. We literally “grit” our teeth through the bad times for a reason, because by clenching our muscles we’re physically summoning our willpower.

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